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From grief to greatness: How Zizipho Mkhwebula turned tragedy into triumph

Palesa Legodi|Published

Matric was more than an academic milestone for Zizipho Mkhwebula of Lufhereng Secondary School, it was a year that tested her resilience, reshaped her character, and revealed a strength forged through personal loss.

The year, which she described as deeply profound, was overshadowed by the death of her father during her matric journey. 

“I had to endure many obstacles to get to where I am today, mainly dealing with the loss of my father during my academic year,” she said. 

Despite the heartbreak, The Soweto learner refused to give up, choosing instead to push herself even harder.

“This fuelled my desire to make him proud, even from the grave, because he was always incredibly supportive of my academics,” she said.

Her determination translated into remarkable academic results. Zizipho achieved 99% in Mathematics and earned eight distinctions in a single term, achievements she described as a reflection of her commitment and discipline. 

“It became a testament to how dedicated I was to pass my matric year,” she said.

The journey, however, was not without exhaustion. Exam season took a heavy toll, particularly during her English paper. 

“I was extremely tired when I wrote that exam and honestly felt I didn’t do as well as I could have,” she admitted. “But all is well that ends well.”

Amid the strain of the year, moments of unity and encouragement became especially meaningful. Zizipho drew strength from cross-night sessions and camps, where she connected with her peers and briefly stepped away from the heavy demands she carried. Looking back, she said the journey revealed a strength she had not known before, adding that she takes pride in continuing to show up for herself, even during times when life felt overwhelming and unfair.

Looking ahead, Zizipho hopes to study Nursing at Wits University, with teaching as her second choice, a path inspired by the many times she assisted classmates with Life Sciences. She also dreams of studying abroad one day, possibly in Qatar.

Her advice to the class of 2026 is rooted in self-belief and purpose. “Don’t be afraid to embrace change, because change is necessary for growth,” she said. “Remember where you come from and where you want to see yourself in five years, then put in the effort to get there. In the end, it’s only you versus you.”

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